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Thursday, June 07, 2007


My heart is always filled with joy when I hear of people who have once suffered the death of a spouse or a divorce, remarrying. They are getting a second chance at happiness.

A girlfriend of mine once expressed to me that she told her husband that he could only remarry upon her death after mourning for 2 years. I don't think the period of mourning is an indicator of his love for her or is it? What do you all think?

I ,for one, should and would be happy if upon my death, hubby is able to find someone else to be his life partner on earth.The worry is only if the kids are still young because of frightening stories of step-mums .


  • I will only worry abt the kids..but then..i trust my hubby , he will definitely find someone who will love the kids as much as he does..

    By Blogger eve, at 7:19 PM  

  • my wife has no problem with that. she said i can re-marry anytime, as long as it's to a post-memopausal, thrifty, hardworking, cook-housekeeper type who loves children but can't have any.

    By Blogger doc, at 9:48 AM  

  • doc, sounds like a maid la... hehe...just kidding, ur wife loves u so much and she really care for ur well being after she's gone.

    eve and just me, lots of women worry their kids will be bullied by step moms, i wonder how a step-mom-to-be or existing step-mom feels. everybody ard prejudge her being a horrifying step-mom. u dicipline the kids, ppl say u dera; kids spoilt, ppl say u tak dicipline them;u tegur the kids, they might say:who r u to tell me?; step sibblings not in good term, u trap in the middle; step-mom and hubby's kid not in good term, hubby trap in middle, then leads to spouse stress. susah...susah..susah...

    By Anonymous jennlg, at 9:13 AM  

  • eve, I hope you are right!

    doc,do you agree with wife's choice?

    jennig, susah but that is how the step mum is perceived

    By Blogger just me, at 2:39 PM  

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