lunch
About 10 of us schoolmates met up for lunch today. It was good catching up with each other. One came all the way from singapore just to meet up. Another got married and brought along her "ah moh" hubby.
When asked how she met her hubby, she mentioned through the internet. I am happy for her and noted that hers is one positive statistic on dating through the net. I hope that a few of our single friends will be encouraged to try this method too, "to make it happen", to quote one of them.
Anyway, I opined to the group that married or single, the most important is that one makes oneself happy. Don't let another dictate your happiness or depend on another completely to make you happy. Do you agree?
When asked how she met her hubby, she mentioned through the internet. I am happy for her and noted that hers is one positive statistic on dating through the net. I hope that a few of our single friends will be encouraged to try this method too, "to make it happen", to quote one of them.
Anyway, I opined to the group that married or single, the most important is that one makes oneself happy. Don't let another dictate your happiness or depend on another completely to make you happy. Do you agree?
posted by just me at
7:18 AM
5 Comments:
yup, totally agree! and try make others happy too, along the way... happiness must be shared, yes? ;)
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may, at 3:44 PM
Definitely shared, may
By
just me, at 1:45 AM
I think dependence is not a bad word. We depend on each other for a lot of things.
Independence is an overvalued character, IMHO. What do you think about that?
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Unknown, at 8:38 AM
'To have joy one must share it -
happiness was born a twin.' Lord Byron...
but being single and happy is achievable as well :)
having said that.. i still prefer to share :)
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Anonymous, at 1:08 AM
Bernard, if one depends on another for too many things, the poor guy or gal will feel suffocated
jl, good for you!
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just me, at 10:41 PM
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